2012-12-31

2012年的366天

好咯,又是一年了...
今年怎樣?嗯...一年又是一年,沒什麼大事情的一年...

下面一點點記錄,從1月到12月

跟中山101級僑生到台北101倒數民國101年的到來!

新年期間不回家,四天時間去流浪,衝合歡山看雪!

傳統:生日流浪行之阿里山


辦了人生的第一場攝影展


“畢業”了!!XD






插曲:人聲人生,認識了這些美妙的合聲(Moment Singers, SURE, 歐開O-Kai)




總結,平淡中帶點精彩,依然一事無成的單身光頭~繼續單身、單眼、單車,萬歲!!
堅持做自己喜歡的事情,愛自己選擇的道路,活著走下去吧!

2012-12-24

Synthesized happiness

2012年12月21日,好像不是芥末日~
大家過得如何呢?

好!我們都還活著,恭喜恭喜!現在回到主題,先看影片



很多時候都會想,如果當初這樣,那現在就不會這樣了...
這是synthesized happiness的效應,那些假設的滿足感總會使自己活在幻想中,無比的美好!但同時這是你都知道無法改變的事實。
Synthesized happiness有兩種情況,一種是可改變主意,另一則反的情況下。
能改變主意的若產生失落感,會比無法改變主意來得強烈。因為你知道兩種情況下,最痛苦的是現在。在另一種無法改變主意的情況下,則會開始假設其實事實也沒那麼糟糕。
但是你的人生,每一個時刻就只有這麼一次機會,no second chance...
所以總結說,幻想、想象力是很豐富的,也能很有效改變自己的想法!!

“The great source of both the misery and disorders of human life, seems to arise from over-rating the difference between one permanent situation and another. Avarice over-rates the difference between poverty and riches: ambition, that between a private and a public station: vain-glory, that between obscurity and extensive reputation. The person under the influence of any of those extravagant passions, is not only miserable in his actual situation, but is often disposed to disturb the peace of society, in order to arrive at that which he so foolishly admires. The slightest observation, however, might satisfy him, that, in all the ordinary situations of human life, a well-disposed mind may be equally calm, equally cheerful, and equally contented. Some of those situations may, no doubt, deserve to be preferred to others: but none of them can deserve to be pursued with that passionate ardour which drives us to violate the rules either of prudence or of justice; or to corrupt the future tranquillity of our minds, either by shame from the remembrance of our own folly, or by remorse from the horror of our own injustice.”

― Adam Smith, The Theory of Moral Sentiments